Facilitating Virtual Meetings
Respond to this prompt using the below discussion.
What types of difficult meeting personalities have you dealt with during a recent meeting? How did you handle the difficult personalities or conflict during the meeting? What would you like to be able to do differently in the future to handle difficult meeting personalities or conflict?
What types of difficult meeting personalities have you dealt with during a recent meeting? How did you handle the difficult personalities or conflict during the meeting? What would you like to be able to do differently in the future to handle difficult meeting personalities or conflict?
We have one team member who has very strong opinions about things and often has difficulty communicating those in team meetings, so we established Ground Rules that are listed on all our team meeting agendas now and are read out-loud at the start of our all-hands team meetings. These have gone over very well and more people feel inclined to speak in meetings knowing that one team member will not diminish what they are saying or even become condescending (which we have de-escalating language ready in case it occurs).
Another issue that has come up as some staff are still virtual and some staff are in the office, those that are virtual may miss out on pre/post meeting discussions and idea building/decision making that can occur at that point. As I have been virtual, this has happened to me several times.
One thing I have found helpful for large virtual meetings is to have a designated person (or two) to monitor the chat, raised hand feature, or people's faces to see if they are trying to talk, to ensure all questions are addressed.
The best solution I have found to dealing with difficult (dominating or complaining) personalities and conflict is to E.L.M.O. the current conversation and set up a separate meeting specific to the issue at hand that is monopolizing the current meeting. It is important to let the person (or people) engaged in the discussion know that you understand the importance of their concern, but that it is best addressed offline. For smaller meetings, I usually go round robin to make sure everyone has a chance to voice an opinion. For larger meetings where round robin is not practical, I usually call on the SME or individuals most involved with the work who should have an opinion (even if they do not voluntarily voice it).
That being said, COVID infused a larger number of staff at both the State (the establishment of the Agency Area Command Center (i.e. ICS-activation) and the Regional (i.e. Regional Coordination Centers) levels.
I say all that because what used to be about 25 people on a conference call became upwards of 90-110 people each Tuesday afternoon.
On these calls we would put forth new COVID Epi-response guidelines and take questions from the Regions and find out if what was proposed would actually "work" at the local level, where the rubber meets the road.
What I've found effective is:
1. Sending out a "call for topics" email ahead of the meeting asking for topics or questions folks want to address.
2. Having an agenda created and followed during the meeting,
3. Only using the audio functions of any web-based meeting platform,
4. Requiring that people "raise their hands" if they have questions or comments.
5. Not being afraid to say "well, we can't decide that today, we'll take it back and bring it back up next week".
6. Follow-up of decisions and reviewed guidance being distributed to all involved parties via a single "Update xxx" email (chronologically from the beginning of the COVID response, where "xxx" is the number of Updates sent out with guidance and information for people to reference).
Point of fact: Our "Update" emails are now up to 108, we we had to archive Updates 1-100 and make the historical record (to include hyperlinks to supporting documents) available via our Division "COVID Response" SharePoint sub-folder that staff have read access.
This came out of "trial and error" early in the course of the Pandemic when tensions were high and decisions needed to be made. Sometimes, they can't be made immediately and one of the key functions of public health is to use both data and experiences to drive decision-making.
These meetings continue to occur, each Tuesday afternoon, same number of people still attending, so perhaps that's my "metric" of success that it's working :)
- Dan